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11 things about credit cards that should be taught as part of compulsory education

 Hello my lovelies,

So in this post I am hoping that I might be able to save a few of my younger readers from some sleepless nights worrying about credit card debt.

So, to keep this simple, I have managed to land myself in a little bit of a sticky situation with credit cards. Having recently spoken to a personal banker and received some brilliant advice, I decided that these five things should be taught at school! Because, I don't know about you, but most people just think "ooooh, credit cards are bad"... but here's what I have learned (albeit the hard way).


1. What is credit?


Credit basically refers to the money that you borrow. You either have good, bad or no credit. In order to get good credit you have to borrow money from lenders and very simply- you must pay it back. In turn, to have bad credit, you borrow, and you don't pay it back. Finally, no credit- this basically means that you have never borrowed before.


2. You need credit.


Even if you have never borrowed a single incey wincey teeny weeny bit of credit, and you have a job where you are earning £45,000 a year- chances are, at some point, you will still need "credit" on your side. Whether it's to sign a phone contract; fund a well needed dentistry job; or to buy a house...


3. Where to begin.


Once you are 18, the bank will offer you an overdraft. Immediately, you will probably think this is very dangerous and will turn it down. Don't. It is a good idea to get an overdraft. Even just a tiny one, between £50 and £100. If you are earning a small wage, the idea is that each month you will get paid in to this account and the amount that you have spent in your overdraft will be paid off. By doing this, you will begin to build your credit file- by simply borrowing and repaying.


4. Credit cards.


Please know that these little plastic cards are very dangerous when in the wrong hands. You must know that they can completely f*ck your life up if you don't use them sensibly. At the same time though, they are fantastic.

So, now it's time to use your imagination.

I want you to think of a really really good friend of yours. Now, they have offered to lend you some money, but they are going to need it back before the end of the month.

If you know that you won't be able to pay that money back to your very dear friend- then chances are, you won't borrow it. You would instead seek money from elsewhere, perhaps the famous bank of mum and dad...

But, if you know and feel confident that you can repay this money. Then go ahead, borrow it.


5. Research


Notice that we imagined a close of friend of yours was lending you money. Please remember this when you come to taking out credit cards. It is very easy (and is actually what I did and how I got in to the mess I am in now) to accept a store credit card... DO NOT DO THIS. Go to your bank, or go to a bank that you know and trust (- a friend). This is because Banks tend to have much kinder interest rates than store cards,but I will discuss that further in the Interest section.

So, it really is worth doing your research to find out which company will offer you the best rates- for e.g. there are some companies that will give you your first 30 months interest free... and there are others that will charge you 39% after your first 30 days.


6. Repayments


So, going back to the scenario with your friend... a key  thing that you need to remember, is that you don't want to destroy your friendship with this very good friend of yours, so you must ensure you pay the money back on time.

If, for any reason you can't pay back the entire amount, then you would speak to your friend and say, 'how about I pay you £** this month, and every month until I have paid you off...?' This would be your minimum payment.

It is essential that you pay this amount, because if you don't you will really upset your friend. Remember, they lent you the money as long as you would pay it back within the month- which you didn't; so they agreed that you could pay a minimum amount each month...

So, if you don't pay this back, they're going to be pretty annoyed. And, they are going to tell all of your other friends not to lend you money because you don't stick to your word, and that- basically is your credit file.

The moral of this little scenario that I have made up, is that credit card companies can actually be very very helpful, however they can also turn into the school bully if you don't stick to your word, they can turn everyone against you. 


7. Building your credit file.


So, your credit file, building on the friends scenario I used above... your credit file is what your 'friends' (the banks) say about you and your borrowing habits. If you think you have annoyed your friend by missing payments, then sure- they will have put a bad word in against you. If you paid the money back straight away, then they will be telling their friends - 'oh, I lent to suchandsuch and they paid me back straight away'... which therefore, builds your credit file, giving you a better credit score- and encouraging others to lend to you in the future.


8. Interest


So this is the part that can really cause the trouble. Basically, your friend has realised that you aren't going to pay them back, but that is going to cost them money- which obviously they don't want. So, they add interest to your borrowed money. This simply means, that every month that you haven't paid off your outstanding amount, they will increase the amount that you owe them.

Now, there are different types of interest- and they will differ for pretty much every single credit card...

Typically, you will be charged varied interest on card/cash/foreign transactions and there will be a monthly interest, and an annual fee. Long story short- the longer you take to pay back the money you borrowed- the more money you are going to owe. Pretty much all credit card companies will give you the first 30 days on each transaction free of interest.

It is imperative that you know what interest you are paying on your card. Though, if you pay your friend back within that first 30 days every time anyway- then that won't effect you!

Know how much you will be charged to take cash out. This is normally quite a large charge- try not to do this unless it is an absolute emergency.


9. Repairing bad credit


So you have lost the trust of your friends because they know you don't pay them back when you say that they will. So nobody wants to lend you money. This is the tricky part. How do you regain somebody's trust? Well, it takes time, it takes effort, and it takes proving that you aren't going to make the same mistake again... So that is exactly what you have to do.

You must pay off any outstanding debt that you have, if necessary organise a 'debt repayment scheme' with your lender. It is always better to talk to the company and explain your situation than to miss payments.

If you are completely out of depth there are several fantastic companies that will help you every step of the way. (Immediate Financial is a company that has been highly recommended by a few people I know).


10. Credit builder credit cards


So, with my dodgy credit rating at the moment, my fantastic personal banker suggested that I should get a credit builder card. These are dangerously scary- like more scary than ordinary credit cards.

The idea is, even if you have a really terrible credit rating, they will offer you money. This is because they have a hideously high interest rate that means as soon as you build interest on that card you are paying back astronomical amounts. So, they can either make you or break you.

If you are clever with it- you can use it for a while to rebuild your credit, and then you can try to apply for an account with more generous lending conditions.


11. Fake borrowing


This is the best way to use a credit card. It is simple... you only buy things that you already have the money for... for example- if you are buying petrol... pay with your credit card, then use your mobile banking app to transfer the amount immediately. Okay, so it's a little time consuming. But it will build your credit file without you actually ever having to pay any interest.


In summary:


  • never ever miss a payment
  • don't go wild and buy things that you won't be able to repay 
  • start borrowing and repaying as soon as you can
  • and finally, BE RESPONSIBLE!!!

I hope this post hasn't been too ridiculously tedious for you to read- and I also hope that you might be able to take something away from it.

Have you got any advice that I missed out?


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100 things you can't move house without

I think that anybody who has moved away from home and got themselves their own place would agree with me: you have no idea how much you have taken the "little things" for granted whilst living with your parents. You know that toilet roll does actually run out? (Always at the most particularly inconvenient time also). You know that someone actually buys the 'scrubby things' that you wash dishes with? You know that in order to grate cheese, you will need to buy a cheese grater?

Well, what I have done, with the help of some friends. Is I have come up with a list of items that you will need to buy when moving in to your first home. Albeit that you may have been to university and lived in student accommodation- chances are, that puts you slightly higher up the list, but you still didn't have to buy everything.

So, I'm going to give you all the benefit of the doubt, and presume you are aware that you will need:
a bed
a washing machine
a stove/oven
a shower/bath

So I decided that there are some really obvious items on this list, that people will think, oh durr!! We don't need to be reminded for that, but let me just tell you- it's often those said really obvious items that get totally forgotten about! So with that in mind, let's talk Kitchens...

Kitchen Ultimate Essentials

  • Fridge
  • Freezer
  • Kettle
  • Cutlery
  • Chopping knives
  • Knife block
  • Chopping board
  • Bottle opener
  • Tin opener
  • Roasting tin
  • Pots and pans 
  • Wooden spoons
  • Silicone Spatula
  • Tongs
  • Washing up rack
  • Washing up liquid
  • Cutlery drawer organiser
  • Cheese grater
  • Sieve
  • Colander 
  • Utensils pot
  • Tupperware
  • Microwave
  • Whisk
  • Bin
  • Tea towels
  • Dish cloths
  • Scrubby cloths
  • Handheld blender

Kitchen Extras

  • Cupcake tin
  • Wall clock
  • Egg timer
  • Egg cups
  • Shot glasses
  • Ice cube tray
  • Skewers/cocktail sticks
  • Electric whisk
  • Weighing scales
  • Fruit bowl
  • Herb plants
  • Fridge magnets
  • Tea pot
  • Tea/Sugar/Coffee pots
  • Coffee machine



Living Room Essentials

  • Sofa
  • Coffee table
  • Fairy lights
  • Lamp(s)
  • Candles
  • TV
  • TV stand
  • Rug
  • Blankets
  • Cushions
  • Bookcase
  • TV package
  • Plants
  • Paintings for wall
  • Photo frames
  • Coasters 
  • Sound system and speakers
  • Table mats

Bathroom Essentials

Bath, toilet etc
  • Mirror
  • Soap dish
  • Toothbrush holder
  • Shower curtain (pretty)
  • Toilet brush
  • Toilet paper holder
  • "Put me down" toilet sticker
  • Towel rack
  • Towels
    • Floor
    • Face
    • Body
  • Small cupboard
  • Medicine cupboard
    • Plasters
    • Painkillers
    • Allergy tablets
  • Shower shelves
  • Weighing scales



Bedroom Essentials

  • Fairylights
  • Laundry bag
  • Candles
  • Lamp
  • Beautiful bedding
  • Mirror
  • Bedside table
  • Wardrobe
  • Coat hangers
  • Dressing table
  • Pictures and photos
  • Alarm clock

Rest of house/Utility Essentials

  • Extension lead (multiple)
  • Clothes horse
  • Clothes washing detergent
  • Clothes softening conditioner
  • Cleaning products
    • Bleach
    • Bathroom cleaner
    • Kitchen all purpose sanitiser
    • Drain unblocker
    • Mirror/window spray
    • Oven cleaner
  • Dust pan and brush
  • Mop and bucket
  • Plunger
  • Hoover
  • Hoover bags
  • Bin bags
  • Iron
  • Ironing board
  • Torch
  • Light bulbs
  • Screwdriver
  • Pens
  • Paper
  • Hot water bottle
  • Full length mirror
  • An 'important things' box
  • Internet
  • Secret stash of chocolate
  • Doormat
  • Shoe rack (in cupboard preferably)
  • Coat hangers (over the door ones if necessary)
So, that's about all I got in my list... did I miss anything that you consider to be an essential item?
Just incase anyone might actually find this list helpful, I have made a PDF version of the list which can be printed off. However I have absolutely no idea how to put a link to it, so er, let me know and I can email it to you :D

Oh, and, look out for my next post, which is following in the footsteps of this one.

Fridge/Kitchen cupboard essentials

Perfect for when you have moved in to your new home... because all that moving is bound to make you hungry!

Jessie xx
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Christmas 'lust' list


So it's that time of year where you find yourself asking loved ones what they want for Christmas, and vice versa. Every year, you rack your brains for something you would like/need but most people tend to be realistic in their Christmas lists. For this reason, I have put together a Christmas 'lust' list, full of things I absolutely do not need, but would absolutely love. I suppose I should point out the fact that there is no way I would expect any of these items in a million years... but... if you are feeling generous...

Here's my Christmas 'lust' list.



So, if money were no object- what would you ask for this Christmas?
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3 simple things that make me smile

Little things are sometimes the things that get you through a long day, cold night, or even a bad mood...
Here are my three things:


Tea, chocolate and candles.

Because, by lighting a candle a room instantly feels more relaxing. Plus with these Yankee Candle wax melts, the room smells divine within seconds. I prefer using these wax melts as it means you make the most of the ever so expensive wax- in a way that you don't with candles. This way you can use a cheap candle, and a Yankee melt... 

Er, excuse me, who doesn't like chocolate? (Well actually, me until I was about 15!) And Galaxy chocolate.. I mean, talk about melt in your mouth. Delicious. Enough said.


In case you haven't already gathered: I LOVE TEA. If you don't love tea, then we're not friends. Okay, exaggeration, but make sure you have tea in your house when I come to visit. Tea is quite possibly my favourite thing to drink. I find it refreshing, relaxing and rejuvenating. 

What three little things make you smile?
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In reflection: 6 reasons why living with me is soul destroying

So, after having written about the difficulties that you face when living with flatmates, I thought it would be important for me to highlight the fact that living with anyone is difficult. And there is no way you are perfect- in any way shape or form. It's all a matter of remembering you have flaws. All these different parts of your personality and living habits that grate on the people who have the priviledge difficulty of living with you.

I have compiled a list of my own flaws which I am going to try to tackle in order to make my own brain space a little less cluttered.

1. Over thinking. I over think things to a ridiculous extent. I need to learn to deal with things before I let them overtake my mind and multiply like an evil case of rabies.

2. I'm a control freak. I like to call it "perfectionist". But I totally understand that it's an absolute pain to live with someone who tries to control things that are out of their hands. Or even who relentlessly expects everyone to want to maintain a particular level of

3. I struggle to relax. This sounds silly, and actually, since starting my blog I have found it to be a brilliant source of Jessie-just-sit-down-and-relax. However, in general- and trust me, it grates on me too- I struggle to sit down and "relax" before the room that I am sitting in looks and feels beautiful. It's annoying, because I wish I could. I can be exhausted, but I would rather pick up rubbish; take dirty dishes to the kitchen; hang up washing; correct pillows; wipe the table... the list goes on.

4. I forget to forget. It's not that I hold grudges, because I really don't think I do. I just seem to have this mental catalogue of things that have upset/annoyed me previously. I try to get rid of them, and it's very childish of me but I seem to justify my thoughts through memories of previous acts of injustice.

5. I throw tantrums. Especially if I am tired/hungry. I just snap and breakdown/freak out. I don't even mean to. Sometimes I just become overly charged with hormones that just need to escape.


6. I complain. A lot. Now this is a really bad one, because I know I do it. But I just really truly struggle to bite my tongue. I will winge, and then I will feel better. But this isn't fair on the people around me. But then, like my mamma told me:


I would say that I am actually a very difficult person to live with. I have ups and downs of days when I do/don't care about the way the house is. I admire any person who has managed to live with me.

I'm also sure that my brothers/boyfriend/flatmates(previous&present)/friends/cat/dog/mum/dad and anyone else who has had the priviledge of living with me, would laugh at the fact that I only picked out six reasons that I am difficult to live with. I know there are more, but trust me- you've got a tonne load of them too! And that's what we all have to do- especially when living with flatmates- accept and understand your own flaws, because it might shed light on the complaints you have about others.
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6 reasons why living with flatmates is soul destroying.

Hi all, So since leaving the comfort of my parent's home I have lived with a handful of different flatmates; each delightfully soul destroying in their own beautiful way. Sometimes I wonder if the anger that bubbles up inside of me is actually going to land me in jail, it would probably be easier there- at least you have your very own space to keep clean and that no one else can destroy. It's opened my eyes to the fact that I am an ultimate control freak, and whilst messiness doesn't bother me; dirtiness and ignorance does. So anyway, here I have put together the top 6 soul destroying things that occur when you share your living space with flatmates. Enjoy.

1. It ruins friendships. You may be moving in with someone who you consider to be your very best friend, but before living with each other, you weren't aware of their reluctance to perform (what you consider to be) simple acts such as flushing the toilet/taking the bins out (or even using bins in the first place). And unfortunately it turns a 'friendship' in to a living arrangement whereby there seems to be no equality.


2. Once you notice it, it only get's worse. Unfortunately, this is probably one of my biggest problems. It's like, once you realise something isn't done the way it should be, you seem to notice it time and time again and it just builds up inside you like this ticking time bomb waiting to explode.

3. You make plans, your flatmates plans come first. If you make a plan, invite someone over for dinner and a movie, or even just a cup of tea... and you forget to tell your flatmate this is the plan, then they are likely to bring a heard of elephants home leading to the swift termination of your plans and them being replaces with you trying to keep your home nice whilst they destroy it.
P.S: the worst is when the heard of elephants are drunk and manage to forget to pick up the toilet seat and then pee all over it and the floor (that you scrubbed and cleaned just hours before), and then you get up half asleep in the middle of the night and sit down on that sticky wet seat... AAAARGGHHHH

4. Dishes. Whether you consider your flatmate to be a clean/tidy person, it is inevitable that you feel like you do everything when comes to keeping your home nice. It's some form of selective perception. However, chances are, your flatmate thinks he/she does everything too, (even though you know they don't). Doing dishes is a nightmare, do you just do your own? Do you make a rota? Do you just do the dishes and get it out of the way? 

5. Clothes washing. You will never ever be 'on top of your washing' when you live with flatmates. Not unless you combine their washing with your own and do it for them. It is inevitable that you will both live with a backlog of washing, and that you will hate how long their washing takes to dry because you could really do with some clean clothes. 

6. Equality. Basically the most soul destroying part about living with flatmates. But I suppose my mum warned me: "Life's not fair Jessie". Basically, you will constantly make compromises, you will feel like 'compromising' takes up your entire life (and it does). 


I would give you some magnificent advice on how to handle it, but I really don't know the answers myself. 
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15 hard truths about living with men

Hi all, 
So I have decided to come up with a list of "hard truths" and realities of moving in with your boyfriend. So I have spoken to a number of my girlfriends and come up with the following list.


Obviously, it is only fair that I point out that these are habits that have been pointed out by many of my friends. I do hope for your sake that not every point on my list is applicable to you and your man, because I know that on the most part I am very lucky with my man, and same for my friends.



Of course the odd pyjama day is allowed, but please, for the sake of yourself and your man, don't forget to continue making an effort.



You are honestly grateful, and it is truly brilliant when he makes dinner or does the dishes, but do not, under any circumstances expect the units to be wiped to the level you expect. There will still be crumbs under/around the toaster/on the floor/on the stove. But just be grateful, at least the dishes are clean… or are they…?

He won’t realise that it is a good idea to pull the chairs out from the table, rather than going around them. Also, don’t expect any attention to be paid to the corners of a room.


You will have to just get used to this. Or you could nag.
 But that probably won't go down well. You will feel like you are repeating yourself constantly. And he will feel like you are just, well, a nag. So how about trying something like this...



Buy some Poo Pouri. Go before you shower. Play music on your phone. Again, deal with it. You’re human. So is he. 
Oh, and don't know what Poo Pouri is? Check it out on their website


As a woman, you will know that each cushion has specific position and particular angle on the sofa. You will have to ignore the constant need to rearrange them, men don’t think it’s comfy or convenient. And consider it a waste of time to make “the cushions look pretty”.


Even though he needs to use it once maybe twice a day, you will never ever understand how much he uses. Nor the fact that if he finishes it, the finished roll will remain where it is. Oh, and if they finish the toilet roll don’t expect to be told. You will find out the hard way, every… single… time.


Altogether, you will wonder constantly what your other half did before you moved in.
How life actually went ahead. My advice: don’t think about it. Just find a way to deal with it. 

Got any "hard truths" you think I missed out? Please comment and let me know!

Thanks for reading!

Jessie x

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What a woman means when she says...



So basically, women expect everyone (men) to understand that a lot of their speech- especially when they are in a bad mood, happens to be in some sort of female code.

Guys: You need to read between the lines- especially when she's crabby (maybe feed her too!)
Anyway, I've broken some of these down for you.

Enjoy!!





















Thanks for reading,

Jessie x
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